The Art Of A Loving Marriage

Hasmita Shah, 2005

Draw a couple of hearts of care and compassion

Dot them around with stars of loving adoration

Brush in a vibrant stroke of laughter and happiness

Sprinkle a generous measure of warmth and gentleness

Rub out carefully any creeping traces of jealousy

By erasing first those sprouting seeds of secrecy

Stop competing with each other to be second or first

Instead, compromise and be both winners through mutual trust

Wipe off the heavy burdens of the rat race

Make time for your marriage at your pace

You will witness your love grow together

If you colour in repeatedly a respect for each other

Step back, contemplate and reflect on your love’s art

An exquisite picture radiating from within the heart

Retrace this painting often with due care and attention

And always in your marriage strive for perfection

Work at maintaining this wonderful masterpiece

By welcoming each day with a big hug and a kiss

Share all your hopes, fears and sorrows

And dare to dream of even better tomorrows